Promiscuity is what no man can ever anticipate from his wife. For you to have a child for another man outside your marriage is a total mess! Can't you see that you have dishonored women? How can you be married and still chose to run things outside? Men do it so you wanted to do it right? Unfortunately, the cat is out of the bag, what you were concealing in the darkness thinking that nobody will get to know has been blown open. You use your hands to bring the exhibit upon yourself! Whether you tell your husband or not, he's still getting the news in no distant time. Honestly, we find your message so repulsive. It is quite unfortunate that you put that innocent man in this mess. What led you to cheat on your husband to the extent that you failed to use protection while having the illicit affair? Now, can't you see that you are at stake?
How will your husband receive the news? He'll get it hot right? Then how will he feel to discover that you did not only cheat on him but got impregnated by another man? During the pregnancy, he was there for you, and when you were put to bed, he ensured that the bills were cleared. Can't you see that you have failed him? You have failed him so woefully! He may even doubt being the paternal father of the first child. The truth remains, no man welcomes a cheating wife, so be prepared to face the inevitable. The father of your second child is threatening to come for his child, which probably means it can not be hidden from your husband. At this moment, you have no choice but to confess to your husband and seek leniency. If he accepts, good. If he does not, then be prepared to face the consequence. Click here to learn from a similar story.https://yvonnedaniels.blogspot.com/2023/02/i-didnt-snatch-my-husband-from-her.html?m=1
I have tried to research the cause of promiscuity in some women, but in conclusion, I can't find any tangible reasons. Some women claim they go into it to deal with their cheating husbands. Is that enough reason why a married woman should drench her pride and self-image and release her body to men? It's a weak reason. Some claim they are in to get financial support for the family, yet another weak reason. Some claim it was a forceful marriage and so they get pleasure with men outside, another flimsy reason.
All these are excuses to live a promiscuous lifestyle. My conclusion is that promiscuity has been in you right from when you were unmarried, which is why you find it extremely difficult to withdraw. I have seen countless married women who have been cheated on by their husbands but they still show their fidelity, why? Living a promiscuous lifestyle wasn't in them, yes, it was out of the question. I have seen some married women who are struggling financially at home, but still adjust to the situation and remain faithful to their husbands. Yes, I have also witnessed some married women confess that they didn't love their husbands initially when they got married, but over time they developed a love for their husbands.
Are we aware that some women get married while still dating the male partner they had before they got married? Some just bump into their ex and pick up where they left off. Some have met new male partners and begin dating while married. I once overheard a young married woman urging her single girlfriend to get married so that she could enjoy life with ease. When they left the styling studio we deliberated on her topic, and the stylist who knows her recounted how she tours the States and outside the country with prominent men in the name of business trips and her innocent or busy husband is nonchalant about it. May our brothers never fall victim to such women in the name of wives.
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Hello, I'm yet to understand why you chose to be cheating on your husband, now which side are you on? Before your very eyes, you have torn your marriage apart. If not that the father of that child wants him back nobody would have heard this story, probably you haven't retraced your steps, you are still dating other men. It's your cross, you chose to carry it, so you've got to bear the pains and the consequences. All the same, I wish you good luck when meeting your husband over this issue.
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