AGONY OF DATING A MARRIED MAN



We are usually tempted to get into a relationship with a married man. Dating a married man is quite awkward, it is morally wrong and quite complicated, a man you know isn't yours, a man you know belongs to someone else, an action you know has a price. 


WHY DO SOME SINGLE GIRLS PREFER MARRIED MEN TO SINGLE MEN; 
Let's see a few crazy reasons 

*Heartbreak From Single Guys;  A girl who has been jilted multiple times by single guys will be reserved, withdrawn, and skeptical of singles. She may find it difficult to trust single guys for a relationship due to her bitter experience. If a married man approaches her at this point and showers her with love, she'll see him as the best option, because she feels she's safe as he's married and therefore can't jilt her, but forgets that the same way he met her is the same way he'll drop her to meet someone else. IS THAT NOT JILTING? 


Monetary Expectations; Another crazy reason why some girls prefer married men to single men is the belief that there is more financial gain in dating a married man. 
CORRECTION: What a married man does is to lure you financially into accepting him, that doesn't make him more generous than some single men out there. The generosity of married men is selfishness! They use it to monopolize your life, restrict you, hinder and block any access to you meeting with another man. Is this generosity? It's an act of selfishness!  He's married, but he forbids you to see anyone else, you also indirectly use your hands to push away potential men, who knows, one of them could be your spouse. 


Covetousness; Some women are extremely so possessive when it comes to desiring what doesn't belong to them. They find pleasure in dating someone's husband and inflicting pain and bitterness on the wife. It gives them joy to know that they are the center of the man's attention. In a twinkle of an eye, they'll strategize on how to cause friction between the man and his wife, or how to get the man to divorce his wife. 
The above crazy reasons are just a few to mention, but the question is, for how long will this last? 


AGONY OF DATING A MARRIED MAN 
* You Are A Loner;  If you are dating a married man, know that you are wrong. You have no one, they are not yours, and you are a loner! He returns to his lovely family at the end of the day after getting you drained. At night when it is cold, he's busy warming up his wife while you wriggle around alone with your blanket to keep warm. Can't you see you're in agony? 


*He Detects When You Should Call Him; 
You can't call him in your spare time as he gives strict instructions on when to call or text. Can't you see that he protects his family's interest while subjecting you to the agony of being a loner? 


*He Doesn't Show Up For You If You Have A Case; 
Never brag about having a man in your life in the name of a married man because he will not show up for you, speak up for you, or stand up for you if you should have a case with someone. He hides in the background, protecting his image, and that of his family. 


To single guys out there, stop constituting the brain behind single girls falling for married men. Stop breaking their hearts! If you don't love a girl, walk away, don't approach her, let alone go into an intimate relationship with her. Stop lying and capturing her with your sweet-coated mouth,  but only dispose of her when you have gotten enough of her. Click on this link to read a similar story. https://yvonnedaniels.blogspot.com/2023/01/after-dating-me-for-8-years-he-left-me.html?m=1


We don't want to go any further, but in conclusion, dating a married man is agony. If a bachelor causes us pain, and we're skeptical of them, being Celibate isn't a crime until you meet that special someone and your heart says "Yes". Just like there are some decent single girls out there, there are some decent single guys out there too, so let's keep that in mind. 
It is better to remain celibate, than subject ourselves to agony. 

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