WHO IS YOUR EX? Ex simply refers to your former partner in an intimate relationship, and why is it inappropriate to still keep in touch with your ex?
As a married man who still keeps in touch with his ex-girlfriend, do you know that you are ignorantly negotiating for what you may end up regretting at the end of the day? Mind you no one likes the name ex, so know that the very lady you're chatting with, still calling, still seeing, etc, hates to remember that you were once in her life but dropped her for someone else. She hates to remember the lovely, and romantic moments you guys used to spend together, she hates to remember that someone else took over her position, someone else you so much value and gave a special place in your life. Of what use is your communication with her now? No matter how pleasant she may try to look on the surface, down deep there, she's wishing to get rid of your wife to regain her possession.
As a married man, the possibility of dating back your ex is high if you still keep in touch with her, but no reasonable lady can accept to date you back as she knows you never saw any relevance in her before you dumped her and embraced someone else. Any of your ex who accepts you is out to win you back or wreak havoc on your marriage, so it's pretty inappropriate to still keep on with your ex. She is now your ex so let go of her, stop calling or chatting to show fake concern. If you were so concerned about her, then why did you end up with her and choose someone else to spend the rest of your life with?
Girls, of what use is the communication between you and your ex who is now married? Who initiates it? If you are the one bugging him with financial aid chats, don't! It was in his place to compensate you when he felt you were not a good fit for him in marriage. Don't make him feel that without him in your life you can't move on. Stop making him see you as irrelevant and liability and remains grateful for making the right choice for someone else. Have it in mind that no man with a good conscience will attempt to date his ex. A man with a good conscience will know that you were hurt when he dropped you and picked his wife, so he'll try his best to keep you at arm's length, he won't even bug you with communications as he wants you to forget the memory of him. The ones that still communicate feel they are smart to get you still laid and later return to their wives, so stop being weak and gullible.
As a married woman, still maintaining communication with your ex is quite awkward. Let go of the memory of him. Do you think that your ex-boyfriend feels better knowing a man like him snatched you from his hands probably you guys were deeply in love but marriage wasn't forthcoming from his end as he was a broke man? Do you think he has forgiven you for betraying the love you guys shared to embrace someone else because of his financial situation? No! You may be very faithful to your husband, but something may trigger something and before you realize yourself the deed has been done, so the earlier the better you help yourself and protect your marriage by disconnecting from your ex. Want to know the result of still connecting with your ex? You can read the story here.
As singles, communicating with your ex-singles can help spark a reunion. Single guys who still keep in touch with their single ex-girlfriend should know that she is still on a platonic level with him believing that one day the handwriting may change for her good, so as a guy if you are not ready to make your future with her, it's advisable to withdraw. Stop toying with her emotions. It is better for her to erase your memory than to cling to it.
For clarification, inappropriate in this context doesn't imply that you are hostile to your ex, no. You are simply trying to protect the interests of your current relationship, and by doing this you have to disconnect from your former relationships.
I hope this article has helped singles who are about to walk down the aisle. Say goodbye to your ex and enjoy a happy marriage with your spouse.
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